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Everyday, I met random people in different situations.
I love talking to elders, because I can get some ideas and knowledge that can help me grow as an individual.

Most of the time, i am asking for their love lifes.
One old woman looks very young in her 60's and yes she is a Spanish. She is living alone in her house and I asked where is her husband. She said he died few years ago.
But you know what, she looks young and always smiling. She looks happy.

I ask what is her secret knowing that when someone you love passed away hurts really bad. She answered briefly,

Acceptance.

There are things that we cannot change, she said. Life is short to make everything complicated.

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Another old woman I know is divorced.
Almost same age with the first old woman. But she looks strict and likes criticism that much. Sometimes she is pissing me off. But she is also nice.
I met her ex-husband one time and he is very funny person. Opposite of what his ex-wife has.
I guess she is not happy. I guess there is a lot of things happened before. I guess she never accepted life. Or i don't know. There are people who can handle problmes and struggles very well and there are people who can not.

Life is unfair? Maybe. Maybe not. We are all human beings. We are not perfect. We just need to choose how to deal with everything.

The key is in our hand.

-Vhey Razon
July 24, 2016
Arturo Soria, Madrid, Spain